December 29, 2014

Listening with Love


Hello everyone!

I can't believe it's December.. blows my mind. I hope everyone enjoyed their Thanksgiving!! Ours was GREAT :) With the holiday, we were able to get in contact with a lot of people and a lot of less-actives we've been trying to visit were home. One miracle that we've seen is the progress we've made with a less active member, sister Kight! I have a testimony that service opens up many opportunities and softens hearts. In the past, sister Kight hasn't been as receptive or open to missionaries, but because we've been helping her in her home, she has let us share the lessons with her. She is absolutely HILARIOUS.. so blunt. Haha. She really opened up about some concerns she has with the church.. most of them involving the "social aspect." She is a really sweet lady with a firm faith in Christ and I know that as we continue to do service for her, her heart will soften even more! Plus we're having taco Tuesday this week, so we're looking forward to that! 

Thursday was awesome.. we had district meeting, which was completely centered on gratitude. We also went to the Waidmann's home (Sis. Kight's daughter who's also in the ward) and they had several non-member friend's there. We spent time talking to them about our faith and what we do as missionaries. We spoke to one of their friends, Jerry for awhile and we actually ended up giving him a copy of the Book of Mormon! He lives in LA and said he would contact the missionaries if he had any more questions. It was just a blessing to be able to share our testimonies with several people in this member's home. This work is the best.

We also went to the Gomez home… they went all out for us! It was so nice and I'm so grateful I could spend it with them. We talked about what we are thankful for and really focused on the savior…we're praying that sister Gomez will continue to have the desire to know for herself.. she's one stubborn lady! (But we love her) :) They came to church yesterday and she stayed for 2nd hour! We will be having an FHE with them and a family in our ward tonight, so we're excited about that!

MIRACLE:  Eduardo! We met Eduardo a couple weeks ago.. he's an 86 year old Philipino man. When we first met him he said, "Hold on!" He ran into his house and came out with a copy of the Book of Mormon and said, " this book saved my life!" a few years back he was very sick in the hospital and someone gave him the Book of Mormon.. he said he would read it and even sleep with it and that it truly gave him the hope he needed. We weren't sure if he was completely there (since he's 86) but He was explaining book of Mormon stories to us?! We were like, "Who is this man??" Haha! And he said he STILL reads it! We invited him to church and he came with his wife yesterday. We're excited to meet with him again and begin teaching him!

We were finally able to have a lesson with Dave! We've been trying to meet with him for awhile.. he's so BUSY. We had a lesson in his home with a member yesterday and it went really well! He was introduced to the church by his girl friend, Julie. She's a member who lives in Salt Lake City and Dave is just fascinated with the church.. he loves it. He has a strong catholic background, but is interested in learning about other religions. We taught him the restoration and he had many sincere questions.. he's very genuine and has been reading and praying. He said he would be baptized if he comes to know that it is true!! We're just trying to help him see the importance of priesthood authority at this point, but he is awesome.. very pure in heart.

Something that I've really been thinking about this week is the power that comes from Listening with Love. I'm focusing on listening with real intent when our investigators are expressing their concerns and thoughts.. so that I can respond by the spirit. I love this quote by elder Bednar, "The gift of discernment operates best when we are listening. To really understand the questions and the intent, ask clarifying questions and be prepared to do as much listening as you do talking." I love that last part about being prepared to listen. I'm so grateful for the spirit in this work.. the spirit is the teacher and I hope that I can be an instrument in the hands of the Lord by being a better listener.

Christ-like love will change the world!  I'm so grateful for this season, where we can focus on serving those around us and reaching out. Charity is the pure love of Christ (Moroni 7:46-48)  I know that if we pray to be filled with this love, the Lord will grant that to us and we will be able to change someone's life for the better.

 I know that my savior lives! I love you all!! Have a good week :)

 Sister James
Thanksgiving with the Gomez family
Winter in Camarillo!
12-01-2014
Camarillo district


 
 

 

 

 

 

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